Your result for The Quick & Painless ENNEAGRAM Test...
4- the Individualist
you chose BY - your Enneagram type is FOUR (aka "The Romantic")
"I am unique"
Romantics have sensitive feelings and are warm and perceptive.
How to Get Along with Me
    * Give me plenty of compliments. They mean a lot to me.
    * Be a supportive friend or partner. Help me to learn to love and value myself.
    * Respect me for my special gifts of intuition and vision.
    * Though I don't always want to be cheered up when I'm feeling melancholy, I sometimes like to have someone lighten me up a little.
    * Don't tell me I'm too sensitive or that I'm overreacting!
What I Like About Being a FOUR
    * my ability to find meaning in life and to experience feeling at a deep level
    * my ability to establish warm connections with people
    * admiring what is noble, truthful, and beautiful in life
    * my creativity, intuition, and sense of humor
    * being unique and being seen as unique by others
    * having aesthetic sensibilities
    * being able to easily pick up the feelings of people around me
What's Hard About Being a FOUR
    * experiencing dark moods of emptiness and despair
    * feelings of self-hatred and shame; believing I don't deserve to be loved
    * feeling guilty when I disappoint people
    * feeling hurt or attacked when someone misundertands me
    * expecting too much from myself and life
    * fearing being abandoned
    * obsessing over resentments
    * longing for what I don't have
FOURs as Children Often
    * have active imaginations: play creatively alone or organize playmates in original games
    * are very sensitive
    * feel that they don't fit in
    * believe they are missing something that other people have
    * attach themselves to idealized teachers, heroes, artists, etc.
    * become antiauthoritarian or rebellious when criticized or not understood
    * feel lonely or abandoned (perhaps as a result of a death or their parents' divorce)
FOURs as Parents
    * help their children become who they really are
    * support their children's creativity and originality
    * are good at helping their children get in touch with their feelings
    * are sometimes overly critical or overly protective
    * are usually very good with children if not too self-absorbed
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2 Comments:
I was a frozen pop-sicle!
I'm so glad you guys had such a great time! These are fun for both the parents and the kids. I have loved our recent nature walks. I hope that we are able to keep them up as well!
And yes, if Mr. Popsicle is chilly, you MUST knit him a hat ;P
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